Filed under:hznp.com — wktd @ January 8, 2009 edit
okay so here's the deal... i like this guy and i've been dropping hints all week. In fact, i even told his friend that i think he's cute and i think his friend told him i said that. immediatly after he heard what i said he added me on facebook. so i thought he liked me and then i started to talk to him but he seemed completely uninterested...does this mean he doesnt like me anymore?... i also think that he might like somenone else because he added her on his facebook too...adding people to facebook doesnt mean anything. he may just add people to show off about how many friends he has and how popular he is. he seems to me that hes trying to play hard to get. talk to his friend and find out if he told him that you thought he was cute. the same thing happened to me a while ago and my friend told the guy and the guy didnt seem interested but in a few days totally talked to me and asked for my number....u never know....he may just be trying to figure out if u do really like him or not. but yea first talk to his friend to see if he ever told him what u said and if he did, what kind of expression did he have when he told him u think that hes cute.It hurts because life is unfair. what is it with you kids and facebook?Facebook is dumb. Just because he added you doesn't mean a thing. I wish this fad would get over.....Try putting yourself in his shoes and think like he is at that time. Ask youself this question - If someone liked me and dropped hints, what message do I receive and as for the pain bit of it, real life is not pleasentville life, you can't be living a life without pain pushing events. This is only to make you strong.He probably added you on facebook just to be nice. Get over him, because he's not worth it! And once you realize that, you'll be wondering why you even liked him in the first place.it's just been a week give it time.i think he likes u and is just rying to make u jellous or he just being mean
Well 1, It's JUST Face Book
And From What I'VE Learned, Guys Like To Play Games
Do The Same Thing Back And If He Still Shows No Interest, Then I'm Sorry
And To Your Question Up Top. It Hurts Because We Allow Ourselfs To Attach To That One Person
"Facebook friend" does not equal "he likes you"
how do you figure he even liked you in the first place?my mom always said:
The more reins you give them, the closer to home they roam.
Translates:
The more you try to control the situation, show interest or try to cling on, or impress this guy...the less he will care. I don't make the rules, I'm just giving it to you straight. Just human nature I suppose. Ever had a syrupy guy that called too much or complimented your every move. That didn't win you over now did it?
And let me add this:
The more a girl or a guy has their sh_t together, or has their own interests and haobbies, the more attractive and interesting you will be to others. It's a win win here ya see? Get goin, have fun, look great, live your life and those guys that are into you will be into you. There is little else you can do about it. Except present yourself in places that you enjoy and might bump into him there. But you cannot fake it. That is very transparent and he will completely see through it.
Bottom line:
When a guy digs you, you never have to wonder about it. He will be the one trying to impress you. Take a look at nature, it's wildly funny to watch peacocks and birds in particular watch tose males put on a show for the females.It means you're too emotional and need to get a grip.Hey,
You don't need to be sad, or worried.
Leave him alone, surprise him - just do your work or study.
Forget from him, it's difficult at the start point but after a day or 2 it will pass. It had happened to me a lot, I liked some girls but they were snob and thought I would run after them, but after a week, everything passed out and I am okay with this. Ok, the same thing I tell my kids is, if you want someone to want you, you have to act like you don't care if they notice you or not. They expect your attention and if its not there they notice. The absence will generate a response. Just hold your ground and don't send any messages, even to say hello. When he finaly sends a hello, just give a casual one liner in response. He'll come back for more. If you tell the guy everything about you right off, he won't see anything to look forward to..he'll think he knows you. Keep him guessing, be mysterious.maybe he just wants to be your friend and get to kno you...dont assume things...maybe you should leave him a little message letting him kno how you feel...and ask if maybe he is interested..i am sorry. guys are just like that. you can drop as many hints as you want...they just do not get it! he is just not the one for you! don't worry. you will find the one!if u get heartbroken like i did... u wont feel anything else... it's true...
and dont play hard to get... some guys will just quit!We guys are sometimes just.... (sleepier than sleepyheads)..
If you like the guy and wonder how he likes you I suggest that you ask him out on a date. - I mean not a date there you can be hanky panky but a date there you can be together alone.
A suggestion is that you tell him that a female friend and you use to visit a certain cafe once a week and as she are forced to cancel the visit in this week he might take over her part...
If he miss a such opportunity he is not worth the effort.he might be playing the field seeing what his options are...u should play heard to get.you need to play hard to get...ignore him..he prollay think you so into him.. they dont like that.Everyone adds everyone on facebook. It doesn't mean anything.just cuz someone adds you on face book that doesnt mean they like you or the other girl....
you should try talking to him and finding out the deal.
not through his friend- you never know how boys will change the story.it hurts because it is an infatuation and you will soon get over itYou're WAY too insecure girl! you need to relax and let nature take it's coarse. If he likes you; the best way to find out is be yourself and for GOD sakes don't let him know that he's getting to you. The best way to a guys heart is playing hard to get. Be kind and gentle but don't let him see you bagging or desperate for him... that's wrong!I am a guy and probably should not say this --- but I am doing it.... Most guys are duds... Some of us don't even have a clue who likes us and who don't. No offense to the guy you like, but go ahead and tell him straight. Just remember, don't sound too needy - casually let him know that u like him and if he likes u too n appreciate you coming forward, everything will workout just fine for you. Wish you Luck.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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